Does 'Legal' Always Mean 'Moral'?

Does ‘Legal’ Always Mean ‘Moral?’

           

            Because something is “legal” does that make it right? We all must make responsible choices daily, regardless of how we “feel” about it. When the alarm goes off for school or work, we know it’s time to get up even though we’d “love” to lie in bed. We get up because it’s right to get up; to ignore that responsibility has corresponding consequences. So it is in every aspect of life on this planet.

            Laws are intended to regulate and guide human behavior. Driving on the right side of the road grants me freedom to use the highway. To drive down the left side violates the law and not only “robs” my freedom, but jeopardizes the safety of those coming the other way.

            The Ten Commandments given to Moses (Exodus 20) have been the basic Moral Code throughout civilization. They are still etched on government walls around the country. “Thou shalt not steal; thou shalt not kill (murder); thou shalt not commit adultery,” etc. are also “etched” in the human conscience. Yes, these laws are constantly violated, but not without an inner witness of that violation or failure. To disregard these absolutes is to welcome anarchy.

            The other side of the coin is the “legalization” of man-made laws that violate God’s laws. For instance, the notorious Roe vs. Wade Decision in 1973 making abortion “legal” has created an ongoing battleground in our nation. In fact, it has divided us down the middle, and has become a primary litmus test in identifying the stance of political candidates. To be “pro-life” (anti-abortion) has been equated with a lack of concern for “women’s rights.” But the greater issue is: Does a living fetus (baby) have a “right” to be born?

            Snuffing out the life of an unborn baby is a violation of God’s law, causing the consciences of God-fearing people to “scream.” O, yes, it’s “legal” to get an abortion, and it can be rationalized in many ways; but when all is said and done, is it right??

            Many things that are “legal” are not necessarily right or profitable. It’s “legal” to drink alcohol, smoke, watch pornography, gamble, etc., etc. but is it good or beneficial? Rather than asking “what’s wrong” with something, we might ask “what’s right with it?” Homes have been utterly destroyed by engagement in “legal” activities taken to extreme. Legality doesn’t make everything right.

            Significantly, Jesus said, “If you love me, keep my commandments.” Evidently true love has a standard; it’s not nebulous. It’s right for children to obey the moral instruction of parents; this is an expression of “love” from both sides. Loving instruction (law) and loving submission go together, resulting in healthy family development.

            Unfortunately, “love” has been relegated to sheer emotion and selfish desire. It’s been confused with “lust”; being interpreted as, “If it feels good, do it.” But we all know  that there are things that we “feel” like doing at times that would end us up in jail!

            Love has the other person’s highest good in mind, while lust is about me. The opposite of “love” is not hatred per/se, but selfishness! While lust can’t wait to get, “love” can wait to give. Lust is selfish, but love is selfless. This applies to the present epidemic of pre-marital sex and babies born out of wedlock. Young ladies looking for “love” and a secure relationship are duped by young men with raging hormones who only have sex in mind! That’s why sex is a gift from God reserved for marriage, where it becomes productive and practiced without guilt. “Marriage is honorable…and the bed undefiled; but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” (Heb. 13:4)

            In closing, I can only touch the ongoing debate regarding so-called “same-sex marriage.” The argument centers on the “right” to “marry” anyone that you “love,” regardless of gender. But suppose that “right” is wrong? Same-sex intimacy defies God’s law and even nature itself. It crosses the proverbial line! That’s why there’s such a furor among God-fearing people. There’s that witness within, like the abortion issue, which says “that’s wrong.” Plus, how far will it go? Are we opening the door for polygamy, bestiality and incest? I think so.

            Why should it be wrong for a father to have sex with a daughter or a son as long as they “love” each other? Yes, there’s still some indignation left toward pedophiles, who molest young children; but not for long. After all, what’s the big deal, if a clergyman, for instance, can gain the “consensual love” of an innocent boy before committing his perverted act?

            The sobering truth is that we are now “legalizing” immorality, making the moral law “obsolete.” In other words, the rules have changed, whereby the embracing of God’s absolute law now becomes “immoral” and/or “unloving.”Talk about perversion! The Supreme Court better think this through. The future of America is not looking good.

Forgiveness and Mental Health

FORGIVENESS AND MENTAL HEALTH

            Does a forgiving spirit have anything to do with our sanity? Evidently it does, according to a study published in the Journal of Health Psychology. The researchers “suggested that teaching forgiveness may be a valuable mental health early intervention strategy.”

            A team of California psychologists conducted a survey among 148 college students to find how being “forgiving” to others affected their own emotional well-being. Their finding “showed for the first time that forgivingness is a strong, independent predictor of mental and physical health.” Moreover, they found that the greater the forgiveness applied, the “fewer negative mental health symptoms” were present.

            Interestingly, the researchers did not delve into the reasons behind this correlation, but took the findings at face value. They suggested that “forgiveness training can promote a more forgiving coping style.” My first response was “how can that be done?” Is granting forgiveness just a matter of “training” or flipping a mental switch? If we are simply physical creatures with no inner soul, then why would there be any need for forgiveness?

            The truth is that we are more than “a hunk of protoplasm with arms and legs;” rather we were created with a soul, including a consciousness of right and wrong. That forgiveness is linked to one’s mental and spiritual well-being is nothing new. In fact, since the Fall of Adam, sin has been a major issue in man’s relationship to God and others. We are all imperfect and self-centered, which often creates offenses calling for apology and forgiveness.

            In my early days, the difference between right and wrong was clear. Basically, homes were strong and proper discipline was maintained, supported by the church and school. Parents and teachers were on the same “team,” desiring the best training for the children. When rules were broken, the offense was addressed with loving correction and penalty. Bad conduct was not ignored, condoned or relegated as “mental illness.” We confessed our wrongdoing to those involved, asking their forgiveness. That settled the issue, resulting in reconciliation and emotional healing.  

            It is significant that there’s such an increase of depression and suicide in our day of “relativity,” where absolutes are being denied. There is confusion as to what is right or wrong. Since the Ten Commandments have been all but cast aside, every one is doing what’s right in his own eyes. That promotes disillusionment and anarchy, not to mention the effect on mental stability.

            Just as 2x2 still equals 4, so God’s moral law remains undaunted. Laws on the highway make traffic flow freely, so the moral law facilitates humans to live in harmony. That’s why we have “law enforcement,” which serves to promote penalty, apology and “forgiveness” to law-breakers.

            The above study has indirectly uncovered a vital issue dealing with “guilt”—that conviction of conscience when we’ve done wrong. Society at large suffers from the burden of sin and guilt, not knowing how to handle it. Obviously, this has a profound effect on one’s emotional and spiritual state. Undoubtedly, this dilemma accounts for the increasing number of those who mask the problem with drugs (legal and/or illegal), alcohol, and other substances. Such an approach is understandable when you “hurt” and have no lasting remedy.

            Where do we go for help? Forgiveness is the bottom-rung need of mankind, and yet only God forgives sin. That takes this whole discussion to another level, beyond psychology per/se. The premise of this study is correct, that forgiveness does enhance mental health, but the basis of “forgiveness” goes far deeper.    

            Would it not be wise to approach this whole subject in light of the sinless One who came on that first Christmas day to die for sinners, making forgiveness possible? Yes, this Biblical message has been ignored and considered outmoded; but just maybe the psychological community needs to take another look at the basis of true forgiveness and its relationship to mental health.

           

Reflections on Robin William’s Suicide

            How shocking it was to hear of the self-inflicted death of Robin Williams, a comedian par excellence. To say that he was uniquely gifted, is an understatement. The genius of his performances has become a legend, taking comedy to a new level. His perpetual style of humor mesmerized audiences world-wide, almost placing him in some “saintly” category. Sadly, the mighty fall just like the rest of us. Why?

            Maybe the following anecdote will help. A man went to a psychiatrist seeking a cure for his depression. Well into the session, the psychiatrist recommended that the man attend the Barnum & Bailey Circus playing in town. He said, “Be sure to watch the lead clown who is extremely funny. If he doesn’t help cure your depression, nothing will.” With a perplexed look, the patient answered, “Doctor, I am that clown.”

            No one would deny that a sense of humor is a great gift, especially in a depressed and frightful world. How good it is to be able to laugh, even when it’s so easy to cry! It’s a tough world out there, and people like Robin Williams have made things a bit more bearable. But humor cannot live in a vacuum; i.e. it must be anchored to reality and hope.        Significantly, Robin was not only a funny man, but a dead serious actor. Humor is often used to cover up deep inner problems. One may readily mask insecurity and emptiness by making others laugh or turning everything into a joke. This is what makes someone like Robin an enigma---how could someone so funny be depressed to the point of suicide?

            Think about it; actors make a living trying to be someone other than themselves. Is it possible that they never find out who they really are? I have one favorite actor who is so believable on screen; yet, when I heard him on a talk show he came off as an “air-head” in an empty suit! How can that be? It’s simple, because he’s an “actor” by trade. And yet the world bows at his feet in “adoration,” expecting great platitudes regarding life and politics.

            What other factors were involved in Robin’s suicide? As some asked, was he “broke” after having made millions? Was he failing physically? Was his career beginning to “slide,” which would eventually remove him from the spotlight? When you’re at the “top”, where can you go but downward. It’s the same issue that we all face to one degree or another—a sense of hopelessness. No one can rightly face the past or the present without having hope in the future. No amount of wealth, education, or political power can produce hope. “Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die,” is a common philosophy of life; but no one is ready to enjoy this life until he’s prepared to die.

            The Bible offers that Hope in the person of Jesus Christ. He came to die in behalf of sinners, to pay the sin debt, that forgiveness and hope might be provided. He arose to place that salvation in force and personally becomes the believer’s Hope. If this life is all we have, we are miserable creatures at best. Christ is the “Hope of Glory,” i.e. a secured future and eternal life in Heaven. What a thought!

            “What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul,” asked Jesus? Whatever Robin Williams possessed in this life, he lost his way. This is not to be critical, but only to promote a moment of truth for the rest of us. Jesus said, “I am the Way…” and that’s no joke! Laughter is a precious, God-given emotion, but must not become an end in itself. This life is serious business and we cannot simply “laugh off” our responsibilities or treat lightly the certainty of our future destination. In a day of shallowness and frivolity, may this sad event sober our thinking.

             

Are We a Couch Potato Nation?

            According to a recent study published in Mayo Clinic Proceedings, exercise data reveals that America has become “a couch potato nation.” Edward C. Archer, a nutrition researcher at the University of Alabama at Birmingham, states that “we’ve engineered physical activity out of our daily lives; and that’s causing the health disparities that we have in this country.” He goes on to say, “How you spend your day determines whether you store your food as fat, or store your food in your muscles, healthfully.”

            The results of the study were discouraging. Obese women “averaged about 11 seconds a day at vigorous exercise, while men and women of normal weight exercised vigorously (e.g. as a jog or uphill hike) for less than two minutes a day.” If moderate exercise, like yoga or golf, were included, the non-obese logged about 2-4 hours weekly; this, in part, is “good news” since it fits the recommended average workout.        

            Still, the fact remains that too many folks are spending long hours and days in sedentary behavior, especially those who are overweight or obese. As I look back to the 50s era, in my college days, heavy and inactive people were sparse. Ambition and hard work were the order of the day. Something has happened to us as a culture, where people are getting bigger, while cars are getting smaller. We used to blame malfunctioning “hormones” and “metabolism” for obesity, but the present problem is more complex. While not discounting genuine medical conditions, other contributing factors need to be addressed.

            Compared to third world nations, our country has been so abundantly blessed with resources. Some folks in Africa, for instance, live next to the city dump, just waiting for the next garbage delivery containing some morsel of food. These folks don’t have need of a gym or spa, for they’re in survival mode. The average American has abundance, even those on Welfare. While the economy may be floundering, there are still jobs for those willing to work. Creating more “jobs” is no guarantee that folks will “get off the couch” to fill them.

            The study confirms that the obese “are stuck in a ‘vicious cycle’ of inactivity and weight gain.” The welfare entitlement system doesn’t help the situation, for it further promotes laziness and lack of personal ambition. This in turn may facilitate food addiction, attempting to “comfort” and ease personal pain. After all, over-eating is one of the more acceptable “addictions.”

But we are talking about more than a physical malady or weight problem. I believe there’s a deeper sense of hopelessness that triggers obsession with food, as in any other addiction. Working with drug addicts has verified this fact. One overcome with any substance abuse, including food, feels hopeless, with no way out of the dark. Thus, the “couch” becomes a personal “refuge” or escape from reality. Instead of normal eating and rest, these become an end in themselves, leading to over-indulgence.

            It’s only fair to say that our modern food processing has contributed to this major problem. The whole food production industry has changed drastically over the years, and eating “healthy” is not as easy as it was. Even with “food stamps”, it’s still possible to avoid fatty and sugar-laden foods, but that would take self-discipline. Obesity is a symptom of a lack of self-control, as in any addiction. But the liberating hope comes by seeking a relationship with the One who made us, thus finding out who we are and why we’re here.

Eating and sleeping are essential to our vocation, but never an end in themselves. The spiritual, mental and emotional component cannot be ignored. We must find that God-given balance in life. Work is part of the plan, which ultimately justifies eating. Although easier said than done, its time to face the issue; let’s get “off the couch” and start moving in the right direction! 

Of Rats and Men

Of Rats and Men

Do rats have “regrets?” I was taken back that anyone would even propose such a question, but they have. Some now believe that rats are capable of “feeling regret about their own actions,” an “emotion” previously attributed only to humans.

Researchers have set up a test called “Restaurant Row” where rats had to choose how long they would wait for food. “It’s like waiting in line at the restaurant,” said Professor David Redish, of Minnesota University. “If the line is too long at the Chinese restaurant, then you give up and go to the Indian restaurant across the street.” Some rats “decided” to move on from one “restaurant” that offered good food, but the wait was too long; however, the second restaurant offered “a less popular dish,” which caused the rats to “look back” at the previous place with a renewed desire to “wait longer for something nice.”

Professor Redish was careful to monitor “signs of regret and not just disappointment.” He admitted that the two were difficult to distinguish, defining the latter as “when things aren’t as good as you hoped.” Regret, however, “is the recognition that you made a mistake.” Now this is really “revolutionary,” seeing that choices border on moral precepts of conscience. This has always been relegated to humans alone, not animals. While animals operate on instinct, people have “the law” written in their hearts.

Significantly, the evolutionary theorem continues to rub out the line between animals and humans. We are not, as they say, the highest form of the animal kingdom, but human beings, created in God’s image. Our outward similarities simply point to a common Creator. Our inner soul grants us self-consciousness and the ability to sense God, which uniquely sets us apart from animals---yes, even rats!

I think it safe to say that animals have a limited thinking process; I believe they “think”, but never “think about what they think.” That’s why they don’t generally suffer from “ulcers” and colitis, etc., like humans do. We in turn possess a sophisticated thinking process, making constant choices, right or wrong. This capability often results in negative “emotions” like worry and depression. Mental disorders abound among humans and the consumption of psychiatric medication is off the charts!  That’s not the case with our pets, wild animals, and even the “rats!”

I think it’s really a disservice to the rats to attempt to place them in the human category. They’re rats, doing what rats do---let them alone! The same God who made us human, to reflect His image, made them rats. Don’t lay the “moral imperative” on creatures that operate on instinct and simply do what they were created to do. Without a conscience, they will die in peace with no “regrets,” and thus no judgment. Man, on the other hand, will one day answer for his sinful choices before God. Unlike animals, this judgment is sure. The Christmas story of Christ’s coming to eventually die on the Cross was God’s remedy for man’s sin. This scenario pertains only to “man” (humans), not animals.

Let’s stop pushing the evolution “button,” and leave the rats to do their thing. Significantly, animals are basically content in their arena of life since they carry out God’s function for them. Fish, for example, are happy in water—their habitat. A “fish out of water” dies! Man seems to be the only “rebel” in creation, refusing to line up with God’s purpose; thus he needs a Savior. In fact, theoretically it would be much better to die as a rat, than die as a man without God. The latter would be “regretful” indeed.

MONEY TALKS

            Tell me how a man spends his money, and I’ll tell you what kind of person he is. Thankfully, money is not the “root of all evil,” but its use reflects the inner character of its possessor. Most people who “love” money don’t have it; that’s why gambling and the lottery craze are so popular. There’s such a thing as having money and not “loving” it; i.e. to utilize it as a vehicle to help others; to invest it in things that really benefit humanity. What a serious responsibility it is to be financially wealthy; for when standing before God one day, the issue will not be how much we made, but what we did with what we had.

            I was recently drawn to an article by Dan Gainor regarding Warren Buffett, the famous liberal billionaire icon. He’s a likeable chap indeed and one whose approachableness has been impressive to me. That impression was soiled when I read that he has donated “more than $1.2 billion to abortion organizations from 2001 to 2012!” This revelation comes on the heels of the year-old murder conviction of Dr. Kermit Gosnell “in the deaths of three babies…delivered alive and then killed with scissors at his grimy, ‘house of horrors’ clinic” in Philadelphia.

            It must be said that, unlike Gosnell, Buffett’s actions have been entirely legal; but like abortion itself, it may be “legal” but that doesn’t make it moral or right. Furthermore, one’s character and philosophy of life is revealed by his philanthropy; the treasure of one’s heart is reflected in one’s giving. Money talks-- whether it takes the form of a political bribe, a gift to charity, or an enablement to those who snuff the life out of pre-born children.

Mr. Gainor brings out the fact that like Gosnell’s fiasco, Buffett’s story has likewise been “largely unreported.” His own charity, the Susan Thompson Buffett Foundation, is named after his first wife who was an abortion advocate, closely linked to Planned Parenthood. While the Foundation’s website includes information regarding college scholarships, etc., there’s not even a “hint at the darker direction of the massive charity.”

It’s no wonder, for what liberal journalist would want to besmirch Warren Buffett’s “incredible media profile” by trying to explain to half of prolife America that this man has given “$289,811,421 to Planned Parenthood since 2001?”  That’s not the way to win friends and influence other liberals.

Money certainly sends with it a message, good or bad. It’s a shame that this “grandfatherly” and brilliant investor, Mr. Buffett, has shown such a lack of moral integrity. No, he hasn’t committed a crime personally, yet his monetary support of abortion has enabled others to perform their dastardly deeds. I’d call that being an accomplice to the crime. People heartily invest in that which is close to their hearts. It’s ironic and disturbing that Mr. Buffett has such clout among journalists, who bow at his feet, waiting for his latest “commentary” on world affairs.

In contrast, Mr. Gainor, points out that a person giving $1,000 to a ballot initiative to defend traditional marriage, would be considered “controversial.” Yet, $1.25 billion given to promote abortion is no seeming problem to those enamored by the pro-abortion agenda!

Indeed, money talks! In itself it is neutral; but in the hand of a person it takes wings for good or evil, depending on the heart attached to the hand.

Converted to Grits and Southern Gospel

            I’ve had the privilege of living in Warren, OH for almost 17 years. Coming from Atlanta, GA was a slight adjustment, having been a college teacher there for a number of years; however, a greater adjustment was moving to the South initially, seeing that I was a “Yankee” by birth. Other than getting used to the “southern drawl” and the ongoing tension of the Civil War, my only two other hurdles were the diet and music. Growing up in a northern German family, I had never heard of grits, turnip greens or black-eyed peas. The closest thing to “grits” I had ever seen was Farina or cream of wheat. Despite the many invitations and “exhortations” to try this “southern ice-cream,” I refused. I was not about to swallow that bland-looking stuff! I must admit, however, that I have never had a problem with Southern-fried Chicken. Yummy!

            This grit thing became an issue to some of my southern friends. In fact, often when being introduced to speak at a gathering, it was mentioned that I had not yet been “converted to grits.” It almost became offensive, like I was a fish out of water or something. I know these people loved me, but they made it seem like something would always be lacking until the “grits conversion” took place. To make a long story short, it wasn’t ‘til my move from Atlanta to Warren that I was brought into the “fold.” During that trip north, we stopped at a Cracker Barrel restaurant in Virginia for breakfast. A man at the next table had ordered eggs, bacon, and, you guess it---grits. It was like a voice said to me, “This is it, try those grits.” The rest is history! Something happened to me that day, as I launched out into the “deep,” with my first order of grits; incidentally, I didn’t partake without first praying and then “murdering” this delicacy with butter, salt and pepper! The word of my “conversion” travelled quickly to Atlanta and other places.

            The second monumental experience was being “captured” by Southern Gospel music. A bit different than the typical hymns of the Church, this music reflected the difficult lives of those in the South in the early 1900s. Hard times and simple faith produced music that emphasized the future hope of Heaven. It took on a happy, upbeat genre of a Biblical expression of deep, settled faith in Christ. Usually sung by a male quartet with piano accompaniment, it was known as “old-timey quartet singing.” (Wikipedia)

 Groups like the Blackwood Brothers, The Cathedrals, the Imperials, and Gold City have brought great joy and wholesome entertainment to multitudes for many decades. Probably the best-known contemporary group today is the Gaither Vocal Band. I knew very little of such blessed music until moving South. I didn’t have the same struggle as with the “grits,” but it wasn’t long until this “Gospel” music became ingrained in my soul as a bona fide expression of heavenly hope.

            Someone recently commented that our local newspaper only reported on “crime and murders.” Obviously that was a bias statement, since The Tribune Chronicle covers a broad gamut of subjects; however, so much of our local activity centers around the corruption and crime perpetrated in our city. It’s nauseating indeed, but simply reflects what’s going on across our beloved land. Sin is rampant and universal, but so is hope in Christ and His Word!

Somehow we need to look beyond the darkness and utter depressed state of this world. There’s another “world” out there, “wherein dwells peace and righteousness.” That’s the main theme of Southern Gospel music; and what a way to “escape” the pollution of this world system, and thus focus on that which is yet to come!

            Recognizing this fact, our local Tribune has sponsored such spiritually uplifting events. The upcoming concert with Gold City at Packard Music Hall on May 19^th is one such event. If you’re curious, skeptical, disenchanted, or even “rebellious” as I was, get a ticket while you can. You’ll be glad you did. I’m looking forward to this joyous and uplifting program, especially since I’ve already been “converted to grits and Southern Gospel.” Hope to see you there!

Marriage and Healthy Hearts

            In a day when the institution of marriage is challenged, ridiculed, maligned, redefined and denigrated, it’s refreshing to read something positive about this God-ordained covenant. In an AP article, “Married folks have fewer heart problems,” Marilyn Marchione cites an interesting study involving 3.5 million Americans. Researchers concluded that “married people are less likely than singles, divorced or widowed folks to suffer any type of heart or blood vessel problem.” These findings were “true at any age, for women as well as for men,” regardless of other risk factors of heart disease, like high cholesterol or diabetes, etc.

            According to Dr. Carlos Alviar, one of the lead cardiologists, this study is the “largest look at marriage and heart health” ever conducted. Previous studies simply compared married to single people, and lacked vital information on those divorced and widowed. It was suggested by Dr. Jeffrey Berger, a preventative cardiologist, that “if someone is married, they have a spouse who encourages them to take better care of themselves.”

In light of these statistics, it could be said that it’s not good to be alone. This was God’s sentiment exactly, when He said at creation, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make a help meet for him,” i.e. one who completes him. (Genesis 2:18) So it was at the first marriage between Adam and Eve. The friendship and comfort of marriage has brought healing to the inner “heart” down through the course of human history.

            Many suffer these days from psychosomatic problems, where bodily disease is triggered by emotional turmoil. I doubt if there’s a physician who would deny that worry can eventually produce a stomach ulcer or a stressed heart condition. Mind over matter is a reality that needs to be addressed. After being married to my Bride for 57 years, I can attest to the truth of this study.

At the marriage altar, two become one flesh. This is unique and precious, making a magical romantic state possible—a bit of “heaven on earth.” This “oneness” is better than “twoness.”  There’s something about the unity of spirit and purpose that bolsters health for the heart (whether inward or outward). Consider also the antiquated fact that marriage provides sexual intimacy without guilt! How many people are addicted to all kinds of substances because of guilt? Not only is this monogamous relationship safe, but it is blissful and satisfying. (Think it through before you poke fun!)

            The study mentions that “marriage seemed to do the most good for those under age 50; they had a 12 percent lower risk of heart-related disease than single people their age.” That’s a significant observation in light of the present trend of young adults shirking marriage or failing to commit to another for life. Certainly not all are to marry, but it is the normal way to maintain and advance society. To play down the privilege and stability of this God-given institution is likely to affect one’s inner and outer health.

Young people need to reconsider their future in light of this trend. There’s something to be said for a young man leaving his father and mother to be joined to a loving wife. Yes, there something sacred about a young couple forsaking all others to be committed to each other for life. How fulfilling and healthy it is when two loving, united  hearts choose to establish a new home and family, where the “smile” of God’s blessing is manifested amid the daily trials of life. Naturally speaking, I doubt that there’s anything on planet earth to compare with this wonderful set-up.

Cleaner than ‘Clean’

                                               

            “I’ve been clean for six months!” These words are not uncommon among those who reside at our Rescue Mission in Youngstown, OH. Such testimonies are literally applauded during a chapel service where someone is celebrating freedom from alcohol or drugs. “Clean” means they have not had a drink or drug “fix” for six months, which is a tremendous milestone to one who knows the devastating power of drug addiction.

            “Clean” is a beautiful word. In the physical realm, it speaks of purity, health, clarity, freedom from disease. What is more powerfully descriptive than Jesus “cleansing the ten lepers?” The Bible also uses this word to depict one’s inner spiritual condition after saving grace has come. Jesus said, “Ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.” (Jno. 15:3)

This is deeper than mere body cleansing; rather it describes a purging of the soul from sin, an inner purification through the miraculous “new birth.” (Jno. 3:3) Here is a transforming work of God whereby a “new heart” (spiritual nature) is put in place; this new, undefiled nature now is capable of manifesting genuine love for God and man.

            I’m “clean” not only from sinful habits, but from the bondage and condemnation of sin. Since Jesus “paid it all” on the Cross, I have been delivered and purged from sin’s defilement. The prophet Isaiah said, “Come, let us reason together, though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.” (Isa.1:18) No matter what the stain, the blood of Christ can make “the foulest clean.”

            As a young, inner-city boy, I had a “junk” business collecting old papers, rags and metal. When I first took rags to the junk dealer, he immediately began to empty the sack containing rags of all colors. I wondered why he was so intent in seeing my multi-color display. He then made it clear that he would accept any color rag but red; he said the paper factory could get the colors blue, yellow, green, etc. out of any rag, but could not get the red out!

This bit of my personal history lay dormant for years until I read Isaiah’s words, “Though your sins be as scarlet (red), they shall be as white as snow.” God has made provision to cleanse the indelible crimson stains of sin! God alone can “get the red out.” The hymn writer issues this personal challenge:

            “Have you been to Jesus for the cleansing power? Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb? Are you fully trusting in His grace this hour? Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb?” (Chorus):

            “Are you washed in the blood, in the soul-cleansing blood of the Lamb? Are your garments spotless? Are they white as snow? Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb?”

It must be quickly stated that this ongoing cleansing is not automatic. As Jesus said, “Ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.” The Bible is God’s instrument of purification and growth. Jesus prayed to the Father, “Sanctify them through the Truth, Thy word is Truth.” (Jno. 17:17) What we do with the Word, God will do with us. He went on to say, “If ye continue in my word…ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” (Jno. 8:31, 32) 

Thankfully, the Word not only cleanses, but sets the believer free; thus, to have liberty in Christ is not a license to do wrong, but rather the freedom to do right! That’s as “clean” as it gets this side of Heaven.

Teen Sues Parents for ‘Child Support’—What’s Next?

            A teenager in New Jersey is suing her parents for “immediate support, current private school fees, and future college tuition.” She claims that her mother and father “tossed her out of their home and cut her off financially.” Her parents, meanwhile, say that their daughter Rachel Canning, 18, moved out willingly after “refusing to abide by their rules.”

            Rachel’s father, Sean Canning, is a town administrator and retired policeman. He shared with the Daily Record how much he and his wife love and miss Rachel. “This is terrible. It’s killing me and my wife…We have a child we want home…and now we’re getting hauled into court.” He explains the “rules” in question as her reconsideration of a problematic boyfriend, “being respectful, and abiding by her curfew.”  What loving and serious parents with young adult children have not faced similar issues?

            But this scenario takes parenting to a whole new level. Every normal family in history has faced similar difficulties and heartaches in raising children. Granted that some children are more cooperative and pliable than others, but all have rebelled in varying degrees. No parent has ever had to teach a child to do wrong---they do that automatically. “Behave yourself” and “do right” are valid mottos of childrearing, along with parental discipline to correct wrong behavior. It’s not uncommon for a rebellious teenager to leave home for a time until conflicts can be resolved; but to blatantly sue well-meaning parents for “child support” is ludicrous.

            What’s happened to respect and gratitude of children for their parents? Rebellion toward authority abounds everywhere. This father had several reasonable conditions (rules) that Rachel was to follow, but she refused; therefore, she lost her privileges, which was only right. Evidently her action was prompted by some outside influence, namely, her best friend’s father—attorney John Inglesino. Wouldn’t you know that instead of attempting to reconcile Rachel with her parents, Mr. Inglesino is “bankrolling Rachel’s lawsuit.” In fact, according to the paper, he’s already requesting in the lawsuit that the Cannings reimburse him $12,597 for legal fees!

            Something is radically wrong with this picture. Many of us remember the “ol’ days” when fathers and mothers ruled the household with loving firmness. There was a semblance of peace because unruly children were dealt with properly. Obedience was honored, and brought reward. Submissive and teachable children were happy and content.  If one rebelled against parental authority and left home, they had no where to go. The attempt to stay at a friend’s home raised a “red flag” with those parents who were sure to ask questions. Parents stuck together, not hesitating to make a phone call to help reconcile the situation. What’s happened to that attitude today?

            Rachel’s so-called “best friend,” along with her father, has only exacerbated the problem. Here’s a father who should have empathy toward Sean Canning, doing everything possible to get Rachel back home. Instead he’s part of the problem, literally making a “federal case” out of a solvable family setback. Shame on this ego-centric and greedy attorney!

The Law can never take the place of loving and firm parents. The courts will never fulfill the inner needs of this young lady, who has chosen to rebel against the folks who love her the most. Parental guidance is a God-send to govern and nurture a child’s developmental years. To spurn this gift is the height of selfishness and ingratitude. Rachel needs to repent of her “bratty” spirit and seek her parent’s forgiveness; she might also seriously consider the far-reaching consequences of “biting the hand” that has so graciously “fed” her for 18 years!

Bridges Can be Rebuilt

            All of us are bridge-builders to some extent. Someone is following our path as we attempt to “bridge” the gap between this life and the one to come. Bridges connect two locations which otherwise may not be accessible. It’s not uncommon to approach a road sign saying, “Bridge out one mile, road closed.” That scenario applies to Randy Bryant’s experience as a “washed out bridge,” separated from his family. “I was addicted to drugs for 20 years,” Randy says. “I’ve broken…many hearts, and I’ve severed ties with those I loved…My life was no life.” He goes on to relate how he sold his mother’s car at a fraction of it’s worth, just to get another “fix.”

            But something changed when “God in His mercy reached out to me and directed my steps to the Rescue Mission of Mahoning Valley (OH). I was once a conniving con; today I know I’m a child of God with hope for a better future.” Randy goes on to relate how his addiction destroyed his relationship with his now 20-year old son. But when his son witnessed his dad’s change of life he said, “Dad, we can’t get back those 18 years, but we can live for the future.” Randy says, “I never thought I’d ever hear those words come from his mouth. He’s even coming to church with me now.” Through a miracle of God’s grace, a “bridge” has now been rebuilt!

            Randy is not only a “bridge” to his family, but a shining light for many others who are coming out of “darkness.” He relates that “I have never been happier in my life. I have learned how to humble myself and to put others first, ‘cause all my life it was about me; now it’s all about Jesus.” With a joyous smile, he further exclaims, “I’m learning how to be a man of God, a husband, and a father to my kids.”

Randy recently graduated from the Mission’s one-year Discipleship Academy, and has become a full-time staff member at the Mission. His life and ministry are infectious for Christ. The glow of God’s glory in a real Christian defies human understanding and description. “For if any man be in Christ he is a new creature; old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.” (2Cor.5:17)

 Randy Bryant exemplifies how a “new life” serves as a “bridge” or connector, pointing lost souls to the Savior. His story is just another saga in history, demonstrating that the Gospel (Good News) of Christ is still the “power of God unto salvation to all who believe…”      

Does God Answer All Our Prayers?

Prov. 28:9---He that turneth away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be abomination.

            How often does one hear someone say: "I say a prayer every night before I go to sleep." Lip service in prayer is so common, yet true prayer fellowship with the true God is rare indeed. There's nothing that reveals one's character and godly attitude any more than intimate "talking" with God. This is indeed the soul's breath of a true Christian, likened to the unceasing breathing process of the body. But this proverb has a "catch"---a shocking prerequisite to acceptable prayer; i.e. obedience to the Word of God.

            One who "turneth away (lit. turns off, turns aside) his ear (inner spiritual ear) from hearing (regarding, obeying) the law (Word), even his prayer (intercession, supplication) shall be abomination" (lit. something morally disgusting, idolatrous). Wow! How could it ever be wrong to "pray?" I thought God "answers all our prayers?"

            What a profound exhortation is this axiom. People "pray," but to whom? I said prayers for years, but never felt like I got past the ceiling. I mouthed words, but with no witness of speaking to a living God. Then Jesus came into my life and all was changed---I got through the ceiling for the first time when I cried out for His salvation and forgiveness!

            Thus prayer is not just words spoken into the air, but a definite conversation and intimacy with the True and Living God. But we must emphasize here the necessity to be in touch with the written Word in order to be in touch with the Living Word (Jesus). "If ye abide in Me and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will and it shall be done unto you," so Jesus said in Jno.15:7.

            Our obedience to and flow from the Word has direct and vital connection to our prayer life. Disobedience or sin "cuts the cord" or lifeline of fellowship with God. David said: “If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me.” (Psa. 66:18)

            Notice, however, that Solomon is not just saying that if we "turn off" the Word our prayers will not be answered; rather he takes it even further by saying: "even his prayer shall be abomination;" i.e. not only unanswered, but wholly rejected as detestable and disgusting before God. What an indictment! Prayer is not a catch-all, as some may think. It's time to proclaim this truth to a sleeping, worldly, backslidden Church, as well as a pseudo-religious world. True prayer emanates from a saving, intimate relationship with the True God.  We cannot pray any higher than we live.

Rescue Mission's 3 graduates change lives through program

By Sean Barron    news@vindy.com   Saturday, January 11, 2014

YOUNGSTOWN

For Paulo Morris, 2013 began with bouts of depression, alcoholism and drug addiction while he roamed the streets in Tuscawaras County. Early this year, however, he has a diploma, completed an intense life-skills and academic program and, perhaps most importantly, he has hope for a brighter future.

“My daughter prayed for me. I came to Youngstown after a friend talked to the pastor, who said, ‘Bring him here,’” Morris recalled, referring to his admission to the Discipleship Academy program at the Rescue Mission of the Mahoning Valley, 962 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd.

Morris was one of three men honored during Friday’s ceremony for having graduated from the one-year program. The other two who received diplomas are Randy Bryant and Shane White.

Roughly 100 friends, family members and others attended the two-hour program and worship service at the mission, which also included plenty of fellowship and testimonials praising the men for their accomplishments.

Morris explained that he suffered severe depression after seeing the contrast between his daughter’s having studied to be a minister in Fort Wayne, Ind., and his situation. Morris’ daughter, Kamiyah Morris, prayed for her father, which encouraged him to change his life, he continued, adding that his goals include being part of the Rescue Mission’s staff and helping others better their lives. “I’m proud of him. We love him so much,” said his sister, Harriet Lemapupatton of Dover, Ohio.
Twenty-two men are in the academy, which features courses on conflict-resolution, financial-management skills and U.S. history, noted Doug Gough, supervisor of men’s services. A final project requires the clients to write personal testimonies, take part in mock job interviews, draft resumes, attend Bible classes and, if needed, obtain their general-education diplomas.

“I nearly destroyed my life, brother,” said White, whose plans include attending San Diego Christian College to learn ways to reach out to others via ministry. “I needed an overall life makeover.” The academy’s biblical and educational aspects proved the most beneficial toward helping him turn his life around, White explained, adding that he never thought college would be an option.

Years of drug addiction “got me to the breaking point,” said Bryant, of Austintown, who thanked his sister and her church for their prayers on his behalf. “It has helped me be a better dad, son, brother and uncle,” he said about the academic program, adding that other benefits included learning more effective ways to deal with anger and develop empathy. Bryant said he intends to give back to the community by working in the mission’s men’s department. His duties likely will be assisting with food, clothing and shelter needs, he noted.

Overcoming addictions and other challenges needs to be supplemented with positive choices, said the Rev. Dr. William Finnigan, the mission’s Bible-study instructor and the ceremony’s keynote speaker.

The Rev. Mr. Finnigan, affectionately known as “Doc,” cited 2 Timothy 3:16, which talks about how everything in the Scriptures is God’s word and is useful for teaching, helping and showing people how to live more-productive lives. “Success is finding what God wants you to do and doing it,” he said, adding that many people have material riches yet are spiritually unfulfilled.

John Muckridge, director of education, used the analogy of remodeling a home as a metaphor for the men’s ability to work on changing their hearts.

Additional remarks came from Jim Echement, executive director; Terry Weyand, academy coordinator; and Gary Montagna, worship leader. Weyand noted that Friday’s ceremony marked the first time three men have graduated simultaneously from the academy.

Boot Camp and the Gender War

              My curiosity was recently sparked by an article entitled, “Why Pull-Ups are Harder for Women.” It comes on the heels of a recent law permitting women equal access to front-line combat situations, which would require “man-like” strength and ability. But this piece, written by Rachael Rettner, reports that many female marines in boot camp are hard pressed to complete three pull-ups on an overhead bar. Thus, the question is asked, “Why do women find the exercise so difficult?”

            This problem has caused the Marine Corps to delay this 3-pull-up requirement for women, even though it is a minimum standard for men. The embarrassing setback came when “55 percent of female recruits…could not complete the task.” They actually pursued an answer to the dilemma through Tim Hewitt, a sports medicine researcher from Ohio State University. He verified that women have “about 40 percent less upper-body mass than men do.” This means that a woman’s “natural upper body is only about 50 to 60 percent as strong as a man’s.”

            I look for the elimination of the “three pull-ups” as a requirement for the women recruits. But nothing will change the left’s determination to “prove” that there’s no real distinction between the genders. Thus, there will be no end to the double standard which exists in the “political correctness” arena. Has anyone even considered lately that maybe women don’t belong in “boot camp,” trying to compete with men? Please hear me out before you cuss me out.

            The above report regarding the female’s upper body strength is a fact that should have been a matter of common sense. By design, men have superior physical strength for their roles as laborer, provider and protector. Women are precious creatures who are indispensable to life on the planet! They don’t belong out on the “front line,” but need to be respected and protected for who they are---women!

The truth is that, generally speaking, women can do anything men can do; but men cannot do some things a woman does; namely, bearing and mothering children. That tells me that, in many respects, women are stronger than men. I’ve come to that conclusion after living with a wonderful lady for almost 57 years!

The issue then is not equality, but God’s purpose for the sexes. It’s preposterous

to attempt to make men and women something that they are not. To rub out the line between the genders can only lead to confusion and utter frustration. Have you watched T.V. lately?

            Am I suggesting that there’s no room for women in the military? Certainly not! While combat duty should be relegated to men, there are strategic support roles open for women. I remember the Women’s Army Auxiliary Corps (WAAC) established in 1942 during World War II. Women recruits entered their own basic training, and were expected to be in top physical condition. These women held strategic positions in many areas of military life, including investigative and administrative work; not to mention their extraordinary service as physicians and nurses.

Of course, such an idea would be ridiculed today, but would still make sense. It would dispel much of the frustration and immorality created by the “unisex” fantasy. Unfortunately, the present demise of traditional marriage and family life would make such a plan impossible. Women are now attempting to demonstrate their “manlike” capabilities, as in the “three pull-ups” episode; in so doing, they are ignoring their lofty and unique estate of womanhood. I believe that this has also had a profound influence upon the demise of true masculinity in the male gender. Suffice to say, this so-called “progressive” attitude has only served to confuse and corrupt a once-great nation. We are reaping what we’ve sown.

           

            

Execution and ‘Civil rights’

            The recent execution of a condemned killer in Ohio has sparked “heavy criticism,” according to an AP article. The attorney for Dennis McGuire, the convicted murderer, has called the execution “a failed, agonizing experiment,” because of the use of a drug combination never tried in the U.S. Allen Bohnert, representing the McGuire family, elaborated on the length of time (over 20 minutes) it took for the drugs to produce death, and the ensuing “agony and terror” suffered by McGuire. He (Bohnert) plans to sue the state of Ohio, stating the people “should be appalled at what was done…in their names.”

            On the surface, it’s easy to sympathize with the attorney and the criminal’s family. Being the humane society that we are, we have bent over backwards to coddle death-row inmates to the end. The drugs used prior to this execution were swift and effective, resulting in little or no “suffering.” But the reality in this case is the “dried up” supply of the sedative pentobarbital, which is now unattainable since it has been declared by the manufacturer as “off limits for capital punishment.” Thus, the prison officials had to minister intravenous doses of two alternative drugs, to put McGuire to death for the 1989 rape and fatal stabbing of a pregnant newly-wed, Joy Stewart.

            One gets the feel from this article that the State is now the culprit, being accused of “cruel and unusual punishment.”  It’s amazing how subtly the emphasis switched from “justice,” to the welfare of the criminal. The State certainly had no intent in making the killer’s death any more painful than necessary. After all, McGuire was just now facing justice some 25 years after his crime! Had there been swift justice given, he would have been executed “pain free” with the formerly-used drug dosage.  

In the midst of the defense’s cry for McGuire’s “constitutional rights,” the state Assistant Attorney General Thomas Madden pressed for the execution to go ahead. He argued that while the U.S. Constitution bans cruel and unusual punishment, “you’re not entitled to a pain-free execution.” The bottom line of this whole episode was not the killer’s “suffering” per/se, but a further attempt to ban capital punishment—period!

I wonder what Joy Stewart’s family was experiencing through this time? A precious life was brutally snuffed out 25 years ago, but who cares? The concern here was about “constitutional justice” given to her murderer, rather than his judicial payment for the murder. McGuire should have thought of his victim’s “civil rights” before taking her life.

It’s interesting how so-called “Criminal Justice,” is more concerned with the rights and well-being of the criminal, than the justice demanded by the crime. In my opinion, the long, drawn-out waiting periods on death row contribute to this “soft” attitude toward carrying out justice. With the passing of years, human nature tends to forget or at least minimize the horrors attached to snuffing out a life.

 I pictured a similar crime occurring in a Muslim country; just how long would it take for that “legal system” to take action on this murderer? No one doubts that there would be swift, “pain-free” justice, as in severing the man’s head from his shoulders! I’m not advocating that kind of “justice” in America, but our growing disrespect and opposition to swift and fair law enforcement is “killing” us from within. If this trend continues, crime and anarchy will reign, and the prisons will be run by the inmates. What a scary thought!        

Is This the “Year of the Bible?”

            That’s what the Mayor of Flower Mound, TX has proclaimed. According to Ben Russell, NBC 5 News, Mayor Tom Hayden made his declaration during last-month’s city council meeting in the Dallas-area suburb.

            “I ask that you join with me…in proclaiming 2014 to be the ‘Year of the Bible’ in Flower Mound, Texas, and encouraging all residents in their own way to examine the principles and teaching found in the Bible,” Hayden said during that meeting.

            He further promoted a website where a daily choice of Bible verses was posted.  The Jan. 2^nd selections included stories of Adam and Eve, Cain and Abel, along with John the Baptist. That same day, Mayor Hayden explained on NBC 5 the inspiration for his proclamation:

            “I believe that Jesus died for my sins and I hope to be able to share the good news with others…Everyone’s personal relationship with God is a personal decision…If I can, I would like to encourage people to read the Bible.”

            Needless to say, the responses came from every angle; from those who supported the Mayor’s position, to those accusing him of “discrimination,” and still others using the “separation of church and state” mantra. As for me, I was impressed with the Mayor’s gutsy move. Thank God, there are still some politicians with conviction and courage. And yet, what was the “big deal” for an American to call people back the Bible, the Book that made America what she is!

It certainly wouldn’t be a problem for a governmental leader in a Muslim country to proclaim 2014 as “the year of the Quran.” But you say, they have state religion, and we don’t. True, but this country was founded on the principles and moral standards of the Bible. Check out the Capitol building in Washington, D.C., along with all of the Presidential monuments and notice the obvious references to the Bible. This is what has made America unique, but that uniqueness is waning rapidly because of our arrogant rejection of the Sacred Scriptures.  

            In Russia’s hay-day of Communism, religion was considered “the opium of the people;” totalitarian government was in, and the people were “slaves of the state.” The Bible was outlawed because of its promotion of God-given personal freedom. The Scriptures were relegated as “fables, and fairy-tales,” etc., supposedly having no life-changing value. Yet I was told that no one visiting a Moscow book store could find one Bible on the “fairy-tale” or fictional literature shelf!

            Amazingly, the government had to lie about the Bible in order to propagate the “Party Line.”  Thankfully, many people under the bondage of Communism were personally liberated and converted to Christ through the Bible. When the Iron Curtain ultimately fell, a new generation was privileged to freely reap the results of that Sacred Book.

            The so-called Progressive, Socialistic cycle is again gaining momentum in America; from the new Pope, to apostate Protestantism, to far left-winged politicians, the down-hill trek continues. Interestingly, what should be the primary responsibility of the Church, i.e. to uphold and promote the Bible as the Word of God, is being done by a city mayor.

Shame on the Church for its failure to demonstrate why it is “separate” from the State! It was sanctioned by our forefathers to do what government could not accomplish; namely, to freely minister the Gospel of God’s grace to human souls. Where are the genuine and courageous preachers of the Bible today? Where are those who proclaim the “whole counsel” of God, unattached from a denominational, political or civil rights agenda?

            Mayor Hayden’s proclamation is simply an attempt to stem the tide of wickedness and moral corruption that is causing our nation to implode. Our primary threat is not from foreign terrorist attacks, but the insidious and destructive forces that are “killing” us from within our borders. In reality, “the enemy is us;” God help us to get back to the foundational truths that birthed and prospered this beloved nation.

I say, “Hat’s off,” to Mayor Hayden, hoping that many other leaders will follow his example!